© rosefeather

Idk, but sometimes sex-positive stuff makes me a little uncomfortable, because there seems to be the implication that having/wanting sex is the norm, and that if you don’t, you’re missing out/have been conditioned not to want it/are just doing it wrong/are repressed.  Because, sex is universal, doncha know?  And strong relationships always have to have strong sexual bonds.  And enjoying sex is a sign that you’re mature/mentally healthy/progressive/something else generally seen as positive.

Like, shouldn’t sex-positivity extend to choosing not to have sex too?


tags: #asexuality
  1. joannalannister reblogged this from samanis and added:
    Hey asshole, I think you need a lesson in tumblr etiquette. If you don’t like someone’s opinion on sexuality, ignore it....
  2. polyamorouslyinlove reblogged this from samanis and added:
    asexuals, disregard the thousands of hurtful messages women and men get about sex every day LET’S TALK ABOUT MEEEEEE,...
  3. formerlybarbreyryswells reblogged this from thegoodlannister and added:
    lmfao idiot WRONG CONVERSATION. We can talk about sexuality in a different conversation that isn’t about asexuality and...
  4. waywardvictoriankhaleesi reblogged this from thegoodlannister and added:
    What the hell? Yep, Cat, you’re completely selfish because you owe your girlfriends sex. Bullshit like this pisses me...
  5. azorahai reblogged this from thegoodlannister and added:
    I am borderline asexual. (my libido is next to nonexistent idek) And this causes a lot of problems with my boyfriend and...
  6. thegoodlannister reblogged this from samanis and added:
    Because the message that if you don’t enjoy sex, there’s something wrong with you - that the default is being sexual,...
  7. cielleduciel reblogged this from thevaleofarryn
  8. thevaleofarryn reblogged this from queenofsunspear
  9. changedbyapotion reblogged this from queenofsunspear and added:
    YES, it should. your sex life is just that, YOURS. have sex, don’t have sex, do what makes you comfortable and whatever...
  10. black-shucks reblogged this from queenofsunspear and added:
    yeah i had a “mens’ rights activist” tell me that having sex makes you less depressed so i should have more sex.. like...
  11. mad4s4l-latter reblogged this from theloupgaroux
  12. mostlydeplorable reblogged this from thegoodlannister and added:
    I am with you there. I mean, I know very well that sex-positivity is really about having a positive attitude about a...
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  14. theloupgaroux reblogged this from queenofsunspear and added:
    It does, though. If you only know people who are saying they are “Sex positive” but are actually judging you based on...
  15. thegoodlannister posted this